My Ex-Girlfriends Info and Pics
My girl situation through life has been an interesting one, very much like a rollercoaster. I made it all the way through High School without even a date or first kiss or anything close to a girlfriend, thats almost 18 years! Right after High School I met my first girlfriend who I was with for almost a year and foolishly almost got married to. I then went almost another 2 full grueling years without even a date or anything! I was told I was much too nice of a guy and all the girls just wanted me as best friends. My third year in college I finally got a second girlfriend that lasted about 3 months. Then I think the day after or second day after we broke up I got my third girlfriend. This one lasted 2 full years. We both were thinking of possible marriage soon, but everything kinda fell apart and she fell for a new guy. That was pretty rough to handle after 2 years with the same person, but I moved on. About a month and a half later I met my most recent ex online, but that only lasted 2 months. All this time I had pretty much never been on just a date with a girl that I wasn't already involved with. So after I graduated college, I finally tried taking things a bit slower and just going on a few dates, have fun, and get to know people. So thats where I am now... checking out the dating scene. And hoping to find the right one someday. So thats the quick chronological overview of my love life, look at the sections below for a more detailed description of each girlfriend and pictures of them all.
This is my 4th ex-girlfriend, Amy Martin (12/28/02-3/6/03)
I met Amy online through Kiss.com. It was a very weird relationship for the short time it lasted. After just a couple months she got way too attached way too quickly, and was talking about forever and marriage and stuff. I didn't really feel the same way about her, so I decided to break it off before I hurt her worse in the long run. She took it really horribly and just couldn't understand why I didn't wanna be with her. I really felt like crap about it, but there was nothing else I could do. I'm sorry Amy.
This is my 3rd ex-girlfriend, Taryn Valenta (11/12/00-11/10/02)
Taryn was by far the longest relationship I've had, we only fell short of our two year anniversary by a couple days. We got together pretty much as a instant rebound from my previous girlfriend, but she had been flirting with me hardcore for a couple months before that. We got close and serious pretty quickly so we just about spent every minute of those two years together, or so it seemed at least. We had our ups and downs, but never really had any big fights. I wasn't totally happy sometimes, but not unhappy either so things just seemed to flow along with no major reason to change it and eventually it just seemed natural to think about getting married after college and spending the rest of our lives together. She didn't know it at the time, but I was actually a few months away from proposing when our relationship started to fall apart. I think our lives together had gotten too normal, too routine for her. We weren't having much fun together anymore and I guess she was getting bored. She started doing homework with some guy and hanging out with him and he told her he liked her and she realized she might like him too. She tells me about it and that she doesn't know what to do about it. I told her I'd back off to give her space to decide what she wanted to do, but I guess that was probably the wrong thing to do. She left me for the other guy. It took me forever to get over her, and whenever I'm lonely I still think about her some, like what my life might be like if I hadn't just sat back and watched her leave, if instead I stood up and fought to keep her. Oh well, I guess thats the way life goes.
This is my 2rd ex-girlfriend, Becky Dugopolski (9/?/00-11/8/00)
Becky was a very welcome change to the almost 2 years of not getting a girl as more than a friend. She was fun to hang out with and to actively go out and do stuff with, but we never really clicked and got as close as my other relationships. Another problem was how busy she always was, it kept getting harder and harder to spend time with her. After a couple months we both decided to break it off and remain friends, though we've gradually lost contact over the years.
This is my 1st ex-girlfriend, Tiffany Hause (6/12/98-5/?/99)
Tiff is a very long and complicated story. I'm not even sure I remember all of the small details and side stories. The bottom line is she was my first girlfriend. Things moved far too fast and I didn't have any experience dating other people. I certainly learned alot from this relationship, and anyone who is one of my close friends knows many of the crazy horror stories from it. First off she and her whole family are a little crazy and on the extreme side. I don't know what I was getting myself into and I certainly don't know how or why I ended up engaged to her when I was 18. Thats just plain crazy, we even had the wedding planned for the next year. I guess in many ways she manipulated me, she could talk me into anything since I was such a naive and overly nice and giving guy. She dragged me through a lot of painful stuff and made me feel bad and sad all the time. The long distance relationship when I went to college was hell, it got 10 times worse when she moved further away and got new friends and stopped talking to me since she had to hang out with the new friends and yet still expected us to stay together and be getting married soon. Then she cheated on me with one of the new friends and made ME feel bad about it. Yet all through this endless hell she was my first girlfriend and I didn't wanna give up on it and she manipulated me into staying with her for much much longer than I should have. I'm just really lucky we didn't actually make it to the wedding. Anyway in the end it was very difficult to bring myself to break up with Tiff, I'd never done anything like it before, she was my first, and she was using all her powers to keep me. After much guilt and sadness at actually having to cause someone pain (see I'm too nice) I finally brought myself to do it for my own good. Also thanks to much support and advice from all of my great friends, thank you guys! She continually tried to get back with me afterwards and I had to eventually tell her that I never wanted to see or hear from her again... and I never have.
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